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Dear Justin,

First of all, let me thank-you for Homestead. I tell people how much I love it all the time. As a middle-aged Mom who never took a computer class in her life, you have made it so easy, I am now the webmaster of many websites. I am hooked and I love it! The only suggestion I have is that it would be great if you had an alphabetizing element for lists.

I wanted to comment on this 4th principle, and share my own story of how important it is. I have always had the philosophy that a person should do what they love, and somehow they will be compensated for it. I love studying various religions, although I never got a degree in it. (My degree is in Psych.) I worked at both a synagogue and a local church, so I could be with my kids as much as possible while they were in preschool, years ago.

A friend asked me a couple of years ago to perform her same-sex, interfaith, non-affiliated wedding, so I got ordained (too easily over the internet, I might add) and performed it. It was wonderful! I loved it. I was able to combine elements of two very different faiths, while reflecting both women's true natures in their ceremony.

Since then, I took more coursework in religion, studied at a distance-learning seminary, and decided to serve nondenominational, interfaith, secular and nontraditional folks through my on-line "ministry". I had a great product (my knowledge, compassion and open-mindedness) and I knew I would had what it took to serve my customers. I have no employees. For me, community was the biggest key to my personal success in what I am doing now.

I have used Homestead to build a pretty large network of interfaith and nondenominational clergy across the Uniteds States, and now I am adding some Officiants from other countries, as well.

Here is where the 4th principle comes in: 78% of the wedding industry gets their information online. Since I started as a single unexperienced officiant, I had practically no web presence. I didn't have any money to advertise on yahoo and google, so I needed to do what I could for free to advertise.

I searched my heart for the answer to what to do. Against many warnings from friends, I decided to "serve" my competitors. Crazy, I know. I figured if I am good to others, they will be good to me. What goes around, comes around.

So, I offered free webpages to everyone else who did what I did. I live in Colorado, and I even started the Colorado Association of Wedding Officiants, a group which shares networking, support, knowledge and fellowship. I offered all of my competitors a chance for professional and personal nourishment. Since last year, I have made hundreds of friends in many religions, all over my state and all over this country.

And guess what, just like I thought, I started getting lots of calls to perform weddings! It seems that everyone I helped, helped me. Everyone I spent time with on the phone, sent me phone referrals. Everyone I shared information with, shared more with me. Everyone I helped set up webpages for, sent me information to put on our site and to share with others. Every link on my site (well almost) wanted to link back with me. Every kindness I showed, was returned to me ten-fold. Now, I have a pretty impressive web presence in the wedding industry, and it was built on COMMUNITY.

It really works, and I am truly blessed.

Yours in friendship,
Officiant Nancy Cronk

Chair of www.Interfaith Officiants.com, Chair of the Colorado Association of Wedding Officiants, Chair of the American Association of Funeral Officiants, and Chair of the American Association of Wedding Officiants Southwest region.

Oops. I guessed before I noticed that you had already posted your answer. I didn't cheat, I promise.
So here is a question: what happens when the needs of one group (employees, customers, community) conflict with the needs of another?

Adria,
This conflict happens continually, and it's the job of the leadership team to sort it out and prioritize. It is a balance, so you end up trying to align the needs of the different priorities (you forgot products, btw), and then give all of them some care and feeding. When they truly butt heads, however, you need a schema (such as the one I'm proposing) that helps you choose. So, if a certain decision is going to help a lower priority but damage a higher priority in the process, and we can't find an alternative, we won't do it (like if the only way we can make our revenue numbers is to overcharge our customers, or tighten up our refund policy).
--jsk

Thanks for taking the time to reply to my comments. I didn't forget products, I just thought it didn't fit into my sentence because products don't have "needs" in the same way the people do. I guess in this case the "needs" of the products are actually the needs of the company itself.

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